Blogs
Blogs
By Sharvani Togata (01 Sep 2026)
You cannot be known by someone you are always performing for
On the self we perform, the self we hide and what happens to intimacy when the two become the same thing.
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By Sharvani Togata (01 Jul 2026)
You learned the language but skipped the work
Therapy vocabulary went mainstream. The infrastructure didn't.
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By Sharvani Togata (23 Jun 2026)
We optimised dating for discovery and destroyed the conditions for depth
The neuroscience of self-expansion, why swiping works against it, and what that means for how we connect.
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By Sharvani Togata (16 Jun 2026)
Learning to love late: Dating after 28 in a world obsessed with timelines
In a culture obsessed with romantic milestones, late bloomers reveal that intimacy follows many clocks, not just the one society approves of.
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By Sharvani Togata (09 Jun 2026)
The grey zone we choose: Why situationships are a rational strategy, not a failure
The psychology behind why so many people choose emotional intimacy without the certainty of a defined relationship.
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By Sharvani Togata (01 Sep 2026)
You cannot be known by someone you are always performing for
On the self we perform, the self we hide and what happens to intimacy when the two become the same thing.
See More
By Sharvani Togata (01 Jul 2026)
You learned the language but skipped the work
Therapy vocabulary went mainstream. The infrastructure didn't.
See More
By Sharvani Togata (23 Jun 2026)
We optimised dating for discovery and destroyed the conditions for depth
The neuroscience of self-expansion, why swiping works against it, and what that means for how we connect.
See More
By Sharvani Togata (16 Jun 2026)
Learning to love late: Dating after 28 in a world obsessed with timelines
In a culture obsessed with romantic milestones, late bloomers reveal that intimacy follows many clocks, not just the one society approves of.
See More
By Sharvani Togata (09 Jun 2026)
The grey zone we choose: Why situationships are a rational strategy, not a failure
The psychology behind why so many people choose emotional intimacy without the certainty of a defined relationship.
See More
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