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Dating elementaries

Vlncy’s guide to bringing a future to every date.

Dating elementaries

Vlncy’s guide to bringing a future to every date.



  1. All we do is give you a chance. Turning it into a win is up to you.
  2. Fixing yourself precedes a relationship.
  3. "You're perfect as you are" is the correct attitude to exclusively date that person in the mirror.


  1. All we do is give you a chance. Turning it into a win is up to you.
  2. Fixing yourself precedes a relationship.
  3. "You're perfect as you are" is the correct attitude to exclusively date that person in the mirror.
Put your date face on
Things either gender may do to turn dates into the right
kind of memories.
Things either gender may do to turn dates into the right kind of memories.

Dressing and grooming

  1. Select from your closet according to the venue's dress code.
  2. If in doubt: You'll never go wrong with a blazer. Coupled with blue jeans, shirt and sneakers.
  3. Groom your hair (scalp and facial). No woman should have to choose between two bears.
  4. Never leave home without a clean handkerchief.
  5. Choose a perfume according to time of day. Fragrances are diurnal things.
  6. Carry after mints.
  7. Pay attention to your shoes. Cause she will.

Greeting your partner

  1. Arrive at the dating venue on time. Intimate your partner about any impending delay.
  2. Receive her at the entrance of the venue.
  3. Greet your partner with a compliment. Thankfully, you're not taxed paying one of those.
  4. Walk to the table/ floor together.
  5. Allow your partner her choice of seat.
  6. Seat her before taking your chair.
  7. Offer your partner the menu first for her selection of the beverage or food.
  8. Treat the waiting staff politely.
  9. Turn off/mute your phone for the duration of the date.
  10. Allow your partner to place her order first.
  11. Be sure to excuse yourself when in need of a restroom visit.
  12. Apologise for any delay in your return.

During the date

  1. Stay attentive during the conversation. Lighthearted.
  2. Curiosity about your partner's always a win
  3. Refrain from oversharing or dominating the conversation.
  4. Listeners are preferred to talkers
  5. Address them by their first name.
  6. Never cross arms; avoid a slump or slouch.
  7. Maximise eye contact. Without staring.
  8. Initiate no physical contact. (That's the woman's prerogative.)
  9. The fork's for the left hand. Knife for the right.
  10. Offer a coffee/ aperitif before asking for the bill.
  11. Take responsibility for the bill. Accept her offer to split it graciously.
  12. Offer once to drop her home if she feels comfortable. Accept a refusal with grace. Without question.

At the date

  1. Arrive at the dating venue on time. Intimate your date partner about any impending delay.
  2. It's prudent to let a trusted one know of the date's time and venue.
  3. Keep the conversation lighthearted.
  4. Grant each new date partner a clean slate.
  5. Hold back on no reasonable questions.
  6. Changing subjects is perfectly fine.
  7. Avoid use of the phone during the date.
  8. Arrange for an intervention if the date goes south.
  9. You're encouraged to call off the date if the vibes feel wrong.
  10. If his behaviour's inappropriate, leave and report him on the app.
  11. Make allowance for acts of gallantry.
  12. Offer to split the bill if your partner's agreeable.
  13. Entertain no entitlement from your date partner.

Dressing and grooming

  1. Select from your closet according to the venue's dress code.
  2. If in doubt: You'll never go wrong with a blazer. Coupled with blue jeans, shirt and sneakers.
  3. Groom your hair (scalp and facial). No woman should have to choose between two bears.
  4. Never leave home without a clean handkerchief.
  5. Choose a perfume according to time of day. Fragrances are diurnal things.
  6. Carry after mints.
  7. Pay attention to your shoes. Cause she will.

Greeting your partner

  1. Arrive at the dating venue on time. Intimate your partner about any impending delay.
  2. Receive her at the entrance of the venue.
  3. Greet your partner with a compliment. Thankfully, you're not taxed paying one of those.
  4. Walk to the table/ floor together.
  5. Allow your partner her choice of seat.
  6. Seat her before taking your chair.
  7. Offer your partner the menu first for her selection of the beverage or food.
  8. Treat the waiting staff politely.
  9. Turn off/mute your phone for the duration of the date.
  10. Allow your partner to place her order first.
  11. Be sure to excuse yourself when in need of a restroom visit.
  12. Apologise for any delay in your return.

During the date

  1. Stay attentive during the conversation. Lighthearted.
  2. Curiosity about your partner's always a win
  3. Refrain from oversharing or dominating the conversation.
  4. Listeners are preferred to talkers
  5. Address them by their first name.
  6. Never cross arms; avoid a slump or slouch.
  7. Maximise eye contact. Without staring.
  8. Initiate no physical contact. (That's the woman's prerogative.)
  9. The fork's for the left hand. Knife for the right.
  10. Offer a coffee/ aperitif before asking for the bill.
  11. Take responsibility for the bill. Accept her offer to split it graciously.
  12. Offer once to drop her home if she feels comfortable. Accept a refusal with grace. Without question.

At the date

  1. Arrive at the dating venue on time. Intimate your date partner about any impending delay.
  2. It's prudent to let a trusted one know of the date's time and venue.
  3. Keep the conversation lighthearted.
  4. Grant each new date partner a clean slate.
  5. Hold back on no reasonable questions.
  6. Changing subjects is perfectly fine.
  7. Avoid use of the phone during the date.
  8. Arrange for an intervention if the date goes south.
  9. You're encouraged to call off the date if the vibes feel wrong.
  10. If his behaviour's inappropriate, leave and report him on the app.
  11. Make allowance for acts of gallantry.
  12. Offer to split the bill if your partner's agreeable.
  13. Entertain no entitlement from your date partner.